Thirty seven years today

We were married on this date in 1978, in St Michael’s Cathedral in Wollongong.  It was a cool but fine day, and while I remember most of the day, I’ve always wished I remembered more of the ceremony.  I know I was shaking while my Dad walked me down the aisle, and grasped Kevin’s hands with a grip of steel while Canon Goodhew smiled reassuringly.  Diana was only 15 and wouldn’t smile because she had braces, and Glynis had just come out of hospital after a threatened miscarriage.  She gave birth to Stephen in December that year.

In true O’Neill fashion we didn’t really celebrate our anniversary.  Neither of us bought cards or presents, and although we had lunch out it was at the cheap as chips Italian in Gateshead and we were joined by our son, who didn’t even offer to buy a drink! But it was a remarkably decent lunch for £7.99 for three courses (bruschetta, very good pasta and coffee).  We came home full as googs, and later delivered Michael to the Job Shop to sign on, from whence he was going to St James to apply for casual work during the season.

It’s been raining all afternoon, though did get up to the heights of 18 degrees today.  Note that this is the middle of official summer.  The year we were married we arrived here in July.  It rained until November when it snowed.  A thirty seven year weather cycle.?

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3 comments

  1. james barker-simson · June 24, 2015

    Wishing you both a very happy anniversary. Love anne.

    From: australiatogateshead Reply-To: australiatogateshead Date: Thursday, 25 June 2015 2:48 am To: james barker-simson Subject: [New post] Thirty seven years today

    WordPress.com kone9867heatherv posted: “We were married on this date in 1978, in St Michael’s Cathedral in Wollongong. It was a cool but fine day, and while I remember most of the day, I’ve always wished I remembered more of the ceremony. I know I was shaking while my Dad walked me down the a”

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  2. Diana Davis · June 25, 2015

    We are doing something special this year as it is our 20th. Ben will be away (of course) so well will celebrate when he gets back. There is a Japanese style B&B here in Kalamunda and you can have the whole experience with a Japanese meal and tea ceremony as well as staying the night.

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  3. Rosanne Gresser · June 25, 2015

    Congratulations – 37 years! Hope he next 37 are wonderful, too!!!!Love Rosanne and David

    Date: Wed, 24 Jun 2015 16:48:25 +0000 To: rosannegresser@hotmail.com

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